[RESIST PSYCHIC DEATH]
Fashion, feminism, and kink. NOT safe for work.
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Photoset reblogged from The End of All Things
Made rebloggable because of awesome pwnage.
Amazing
This neck beard tried it. It failed.
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I wonder if feminists realise that a few of them are actually quite sexist towards men..?
eat my ass from the inside out
Yeah, well….most of us have met men. End of story.
/misandrist
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Photoset reblogged from Diary of the Uppity Wench
Made rebloggable upon request. Original ask here.
This speaks to so many of the problems I have with some blogs I come across. I’m not as familiar with this particular tumblr besides what pics I’ve seen, but I have had to stop and take breaks from tumblr because of the disturbing content. I like extreme BDSM but when it’s accompanied by captions that sound like genuine misogyny and dehumanizing, I get sick to my stomach. Especially with the blogs whose theme is being forced into submission by brainwashing. I’m not into that. Hopefully it stays a fantasy for individuals and good for you if you can find someone to act that out with you, but I find it disturbing.
Also, it feels weird to be reblogging this from rape—-princess.
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“Rick Ross condoned rape in that song … and he should apologize, and his apology that he offered was unacceptable.”
-Talib Kweli on Rick Ross’ rape lyricThe lyrics in question talk about drugging a woman and taking her home. “Put molly all in her champagne/ She ain’t even know it/ I took her home and I enjoyed that/ She ain’t even know it,” raps Ross.
Apparently RR believes that since he didn’t use the word ‘rape’ that this is all a misunderstanding. -_-
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Steubenville football players drug, kidnap, and gang rape unconscious girl, call themselves “Rape Crew”, tweet about it, take pictures of it, and video tape it. They are essentially sentenced to 1-2 years. The media bends over backwards to portray them sympathetically.
Marissa Alexander fires a warning gunshot to defend herself against abusive husband. No one is hurt. She is sentenced to 20 years.
Disgusting
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Man: Hello, I’d like to report a mugging.
Officer: A mugging, eh? Where did it take place?
Man: I was walking by 21st and Dundritch Street and a man pulled out a gun and said, “Give me all your money.”
Officer: And did you?
Man: Yes, I co-operated.
Officer: So you willingly gave the man your money without fighting back, calling for help or trying to escape?
Man: Well, yes, but I was terrified. I thought he was going to kill me!
Officer: Mmm. But you did co-operate with him. And I’ve been informed that you’re quite a philanthropist, too.
Man: I give to charity, yes.
Officer: So you like to give money away. You make a habit of giving money away.
Man: What does that have to do with this situation?
Officer: You knowingly walked down Dundritch Street in your suit when everyone knows you like to give away money, and then you didn’t fight back. It sounds like you gave money to someone, but now you’re having after-donation regret. Tell me, do you really want to ruin his life because of your mistake?
Man: This is ridiculous!
Officer: This is a rape analogy. This is what women face every single day when they try to bring their rapists to justice.
- A comment on the CNN Petition
To sign it, go here: http://www.change.org/petitions/cnn-apologize-for-your-disgusting-coverage-of-the-steubenville-rapists?utm_campaign=autopublish&utm_medium=facebook&utm_source=share_petition
(via glowpixie)
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Photo reblogged from To porcelain, to ivory, to steel
Women in Chicago being arrested for wearing one piece bathing suits, without the required leg coverings. 1922
(Source: historiespast)
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Photo reblogged from So you agree? You think you're really pretty?
It’s Intl. Women’s Day and I plan to revel in all the misandry. (Not to say all feminists hate men or should hate men. Just that I do, lol.)
(Source: cuntcastle)
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An excellent article on what is so offensive and sick about Seth McFarlane’s song from the Oscars last night.
I just spent almost an hour trying to explain to my FEMALE friend WHO MINORED IN WOMEN AND GENDER STUDIES why this is a problem.
God, please, just kill all the stupid people, male and female.
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Photoset reblogged from Porn and Kittens
The scene, part of the “Walk a Mile in her Shoes” event, was a sight to behold. Soldiers and civilians, mostly male, strapped on flashy red high heels and pushed strollers or carried their children in backpacks. Battle buddies teetered clumsily, holding onto each other for physical and even moral support.
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Quote reblogged from Gallchobhair
[TW: Sexual Assault]
His lips crushed mine, stopping my protest. He kissed me angrily, roughly, his other hand gripping tight around the back of my neck, making escape impossible. I shoved against his chest with all my strength, but he didn’t even seem to notice. His mouth was soft, despite the anger, his lips molding to mine in a warm, unfamiliar way.
I grabbed at his face, trying to push it away, failing again. He seemed to notice this time, though, and it aggravated him. His lips forced mine open, and I could feel his hot breath in my mouth.
Acting on instinct, I let my hands drop to my side, and shut down. I opened my eyes and didn’t fight, didn’t feel… just waited for him to stop.
Twilight: Eclipse p. 331 (Bella and Jacob’s first kiss)
This is rape culture.
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Photo reblogged from Porn and Kittens
50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada
Use, redistribute, print.
Click image and magnify for large version.
Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticizedfiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.
so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex
it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine
i know my shit okay
im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid
Let me
just
fucking
drop
some fucking
knowledge on you right now.
Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.
So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.
Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.
Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.
Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.
Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.
And this post is going into my bookmarks, because it is beautiful.
I read a few excerpts and they do not sound like any sort of proper consenting type of bdsm relationship at all. It is kind of frankly terrifying! Ew.
imo, the only good thing about that book is how hilarious it was when luka liveblogged listening to the audiobook.
and even he couldn’t take the whole thing. he made his dog finish.
I see red whenever people say that the only reason people are against 50 Shades is because they don’t want women to read and enjoy erotica. I would love all women to read and enjoy erotica with no shame. I do not love that abusive behaviour is romanticized, and that BDSM, as presented in this trilogy, is considered a result of trauma and something that needs to be healed by the heroine’s Magical Vagina.
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Photoset reblogged from To porcelain, to ivory, to steel
“In an entertainment world where women are disappearing from multiplexes, where men bulk up as superheroes while women don’t eat but sip pink drinks, we need to remember that there was once a very short heroine who hunted monsters and talked about Einstein, who kicked ass and questioned her faith, who went to work with a man she loved but didn’t rip his shirt off over lunch, who didn’t want to believe, but opened herself nonetheless to possibility. We need Scully back, even for a moment.”
(Source: maybetheresknope)